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My Marriage Has Been A Lie

My Marriage Has Been A Lie

When I speak with betrayed spouses, who have recently learnt that their partners have been having an affair or affairs for a long time, the sense of betrayal can be overwhelming. They will often recall events or occasions from their marriage and life together and say something like “… and all the time, he was seeing her! Our marriage has been a complete lie.”

Is Cheating Such A Big Deal In Today’s World?

Is Cheating Such A Big Deal In Today’s World?

In the entire history of man, we learn that civilisations and empires collapse when they become spiritually and morally bankrupt. Each time a society uses community, sharing and working together, it improves and grows. Once it experiences success, the rot starts to...

How Our Careers Affect Our Marriages

How Our Careers Affect Our Marriages

Getting married is one of the most prominent times of someone's life. And after months of planning, the big day has finally come and gone. Now, after the honeymoon, it's time to settle into a routine of work and life as a married couple. The current divorce rate in...

Toxic Relationship Habits

Toxic Relationship Habits

Every relationship has aspects and habits that could be improved or deemed “unhealthy.” However, there are some habits that couples form that are never okay and should be addressed immediately. The following three habits are way too common and can produce unsafe and...

Being Ready for Love

Being Ready for Love

Connection, intimacy, and love are all feelings most humans desire to experience. Even though we want these things, they are often hard to find. A dozen dates may go by but there is no deeper connection. Our expectations are not met and we move onto the next fish in...

The Different Types of Infidelity

The Different Types of Infidelity

We tend to only think of infidelity as being physical. If our partner has sex with another person, that’s cheating. If our partner kisses someone or touches them suggestively, that’s cheating. But in our modern world, where whole lives can exist online, there are many...

How Can I Learn To Trust My Partner Again After Infidelity?

How Can I Learn To Trust My Partner Again After Infidelity?

Pete says... In order to really trust someone, you need to decide to give them your trust and not make them earn it. This is an essential part of trust that most people don’t know. Trust comes from within you - people don’t need to prove to you that they are...